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Post by ScottLaRock on Mar 28, 2004 7:35:05 GMT -5
The children , the future . First let me say that Jenifer and I was blessed with healthy children . Im thankful , Lord , so thankkful . Would you walk a mile for your child ? 10 miles for your child ? How about for another persons child ? This is why I ask this - In this time that we live in , people tend to forget about our Mother Earth and our children , our healthy children . The group that we as humans usally always forget are the children with special needs . I am sorry if this thread here offends anyone , I put this here on this thread cuz I will always put the youth with Jah . Anyways The children need us. Our time flies , its the GOoD that you do on this Earth NOW that counts in the end , for real . So there is this walk going on at Dodger stadium for a cure for Autism ( I think April 16 or 17 ). GOoD people - special needs , GOoD people we tend to forget about , cuz we are ignorant when we dont have to deal with such situations . But still there are people who do have to live with this . If your interested in helping , go to www.cureautismnow.orgIf not this , then please something GOoD for someone who trully needs your help . Before you know it , your time is up. Do some GOoD. I want to take this time and give thanks to the MOST HIGH for THOMMY! Many Blessing to you Thommy. IMEN Love to all
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Post by reggaemom on Mar 28, 2004 21:53:48 GMT -5
TEXTTEXT :)Scott you are a true and blessed friend thank you so much for the post Thommy sends his blessings and love. Wishing you strenght and blessing to all yours...
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Post by messenger on Mar 28, 2004 22:03:43 GMT -5
Thanks for the link ScottLaRock, I sit with a young autistic man. My cousin is his parents housekeeper and she used to go every week and see Stuart, that's his name, sitting and rocking, playing a music tape over and over, so she knew of another young man like stuart that went to school everyday so she got the info and passed it on to Stuarts parents and his first day he went on the bus and when they brought him home he wouldn't get off of the bus, he enjoyed it so much, now he has been going for three years and has a job there and gets paid! I also worked at a rehab. center, I worked with the babies the center is here where I live and you even get to take the kids home with you, the ones that no-one comes to take home for the holidays, but don't worry there's always someone that takes them home, actually there is a waiting list.
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Post by ScottLaRock on Apr 7, 2004 12:43:52 GMT -5
So I struggle with issues involving my chiildren . My one son Jesse is 6 . He is having trouble in school with the other children , meaning they are grouping up on him and seperating him from the little clique that is already established in his class , which in itself trips me out . He asked me yesterday why no one likes him . To you I ask why is a 6 year old asking such a question ? Jeny and I teach our sons about being GOoD , we focus on family and love . But in his class, and im sure everwhere else , these children are cussing , pretending to smoke ( in our house you DO NOT pretend to smoke , Jeny and I will not promote wicked babylons death sticks) , telling Jesse that he is nothing and that they , in the night will come for him and take him away forever , till we pay them money ( true story). Picking fights with him . The list goes on and on . Jesse is an emotional wreck . He dont want to go to school , he feels so alone . In this world why are parents promoting such bad behavior . So many youth end up with low self estem ( Jesse ) and later either kill themselves or just give up and live as outcast . Neither of those do we want Jesse . He is such a GOoD boy . We as parents are doing our part , but this is still happening to him . The boys that are doing this to him are getting in trouble with the school and their parents have had to come in for meetings , but this still goes on . I guess the other parents just dont care or they promote these behaviors , either case it is wrong . People wonder why a child would go on a rampage in school . Because of things like this . Bullies . Not that its right , but I overstand . Our country as a whole , pretty much endorses bad behavior . So I'm not really surprised at how most the youth glorify Badness . Its just Jesse is trully a GOod boy and I see changes in him because of this . I will stand by him and talk with him and pick him up when he falls and show him how to stand up against these wrong doers. But he is so out numbered . I pray to you Lord to hold Jesse through these trying times , and to give him strength on his journey . I also pray for the youth world wide , that your light will shine in to them and warm there hearts with your GOoDness Imen Just trying to vent . Im a struggler . I know the GOoD path is not the easy path . But this is my family , and I tell no lies when I say that he could be a GOoD leader for his generation (or this could destroy him ). So I worry. Please pray for Jesse and the Youth everyday. you can have the forum back Love to all
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Post by messenger on Apr 7, 2004 14:38:25 GMT -5
I too have to ask those same questions.
My fourteen year old is a good sweet girl, she has so many friends, but one day a little friends mother brought her child and her sister and another little girl over to my home to fight with my little girl, well the bus hadn't came yet and the mother pulled over to the side of the street in front of my privacy fence until the bus came, and good thing I was outside when the bus pulled up, they all jumped out of the car including the mother running over to my daughter, yelling, and I got in between them and I looked at the mother and said get off of my property, why would you raise your beautiful daughters like this, and she just kept yelling with her daughter like she was one of the kids.
So I told her once again to leave and she kept saying to her daughter, "you said what you were going to do if I brought you over here, do it", and I said ,"she's not going to do anything, they will just stay away from each other", and please leave, well the little girl got a punch in and so did my girl, and then they left after I pushed my girl toward the house.
I then called the police , gave a report, the next day I file charges on her daughter in juvenile court, and on the mother in justice court, they picked the mother up that day, and the little girl will probably end up in juvenile at a later date.
We have police officers at all of our schools, and I've had the same problem on the bus, but if you file charges in juvenile court, or even with the police, it will stop. Before something bad happens!
Hate is a chain.
I pray for your family.
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Post by reggaemom on Apr 7, 2004 20:44:02 GMT -5
So sad but so true you think of these kids being raised by these parents that have no sense what so ever and you wounder what their future will be like. as for me I have been lucky that my kids don't have that kind of proublem here but they see it I have always told my boys if they see a kid being picked on to either go get a teacher to stop it and then go report it to the principal. I don't condone violence but have told my kids that they are to protect themselfs at all times and to be there for each other. Where I and my kids are growing up it is a tuff area and we have to be on our gaurd at all times not the way kids should have to be kids should be able to run and play and enjoy them selfs and not have to be always looking over their shoulders. So to me if every one did as you did messenger more parents would think twice before they did such dumb things. I want to say that i think you handled that so very well. And scott you tell Jess that we are praying for him and not to worry about them boys cuz in his life he will find many friends and soon he will find real friends it just take time but it will happen and thoses boys are cold and heart less and soon they will get a taste of what it feels like to .. But tell him he has many friends here in cali and we like him just the way he is. much love and prayers to all parents and to the kids we need to be strong and teach the good message.
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